The I Make a Difference processes were created so that you can develop your awareness and ability to understand and know how to change what you are feeling, thinking and how you are behaving, for the betterment of you and your life. For you to know the truth of what it takes to be your true self and have the tools and processes to be you.

Your True Self
Your true self is the part of you where - trust is never an issue it is not something you ever question - your curiosity and wonder at the world and life, fills your day with fascination - the love, acceptance, appreciation and valuing of others and yourself is natural and radiates within and from you - you live in the moment and know you benefit from every situation - you know who you are, honor your truth and live by what is true and right for you. This is your natural true self, the one that lives at the core of you, whom you can reconnect to, uncover and discover.

I Make a Difference Book

"The IMAD process is something which will guide people throughout their lives and lead them, like me, to a place of deeper connection to who they are in all aspects of self, to a life which has greater fulfillment, peace, love, acceptance and beauty. In uncovering what we are to see we can discover the riches of what it means to be whole." - Barbara

I am Melinda and you can call me Minz.

Being able to share with you what I love is so so precious to me – Individuals having the ability to be self reliant in journeying towards becoming who they truly are.

The whole reason I created I Make a Difference was because I wanted people to have a process, tools and ways they could make a real and sustainable difference to how they felt, what they thought, how they behaved, their interactions in the relationships and their life.

I found tools and answers within myself that helped me to do this and most importantly helped me to find me again – the true me. 

I Make a Difference and myself are here to support you to do so.


Many times I am asked – “who are the people you are reaching out to with I Make a Difference?” 

My answer “Everyone”

You may be going through:

  • emotionally impacting times, 
  • unsure how to deal with particular people and situations,
  • experiencing patterns of situations you do not know how to change
  • have behaviors and beliefs you want to change
  • there may be times you are down and do not know how to work your way through the darkness
  • you may want to know and understand more about yourself
  • develop your confidence,
  • know how to identify and work through emotions
  • have more powerful relationships
  • you may be a parent who wants to understand how you are impacting your children and how you can do things differently
  • a leader who wants to know how to manage your own and others emotional processing
  • you may be searching for ways you can be more natural and true to you.

The I Make a Difference processes will support you to make a difference to you.


No matter what your age is, your gender, culture or background, life does not discriminate as to who will experience emotional, mental, physiological and energy craziness and mayhem. Processing that goes on inside of you that is confusing, overwhelming at times and can even leave you feeling quite desperate. This is the conditioned and hurt you. And you find yourself asking and even internally screaming "what is it that is happening to me?", "why am I experiencing this?" and "how do I stop the hurt?" and "how do I change the conditioning?
However there is also a jewel within you, a place that is filled with strength, gentleness, beauty, acceptance, simplicity, stillness and an abundance of love. This is you, the true you. You find you are curious and want to know who truly are, what is true and right for you, how to connect and listen to the answers you know you have inside of you and how to be you.